“Who Is Dr. Paul... And How Can He Help Me Own the Advantage When It Comes to Women And My ‘Mission in Life’ as a Man?”

Hi, it’s Dr. Paul here.

Let me introduce myself, and explain a bit on how it could be… that there are resources and skills available you didn’t even know existed.

I have a set of programs for your advantage in life that simply aren’t available from any other source, whether self-help or academic. Together, they form a kind of “curriculum” or “university” for you to build your life with.

First, let me answer the question: “Who is Dr. Paul?”

You may have seen a lot of me in the media, or in books I’ve written, but you may be surprised to find out I’m still just a relatively young, average guy who’s been through just about every challenge in life you have.

The short version is that like you – and all men – things weren’t perfect for me growing up.

I’m the eldest of four siblings, and my mom and dad who had problems of their own were not very involved in our lives. I had a good teacher here and there… but for the most part, reaching adulthood and “Being a Man” whose most important task is making one’s way in the world did not at all come easy for me. And that’s not even speaking of dating.

There was really nobody to turn to for mentorship, 24-7 advice and guidance, or consistently cared about how my life was going. The best I could do for myself was to read voraciously and try out what I learned out in the real world. Yet, there was no help for me with the “hands on” stuff of life – the actions to take. The “how to do things” that I suspected were the source of the real successes in life.

I’m not talking about how to balance a checkbook or how to drive a car. I mean all the “hidden” things about being a man. The stuff that has never been written in textbooks, taught by a teacher, or is even talked about by most people’s fathers. Certainly not by their moms.

Dad never taught me to play sports, how to attract women and dating, or how to make my way in the world. I suspect he was not exceptional at any of those things himself. Still, I’d wished many times that he was able to “tell me what to do.” He never did.

I sometimes wished that instead of having to always be the big brother to my siblings, that there would somehow be an older brother of my own. One to “tell me what to do.”

There seemed to be something missing in me and I couldn’t figure out what that “something” was. I also knew that whatever that “something” was, it was the secret key to all the wealth, lifestyle, success with women, and source of happiness for many of the guys I had become friends with over the years.

I took clues from the behavior of these other guys – the ones who seemed to me to be most successful with women and in their careers.

It wasn’t like you could just go up to them and ask, “Hey, how do you get women so interested in you? I can’t do it. Help.”

You couldn’t say, “Hey, where did all your money come from? Why do you have it so easy? How do I get a supportive family like yours, and such a huge circle of friends? It’s been a struggle for me all my life. Help.”

Saying things like that would have made me so “uncool,” and making friends was hard enough.

I won’t bore you with all the further details, but at one point in my early twenties, I was knocked to the ground, devastated:

I had somehow had some natural smarts and found my way into medical school. It seemed like a way to make my life move forward, and get me out of the poverty of my background. I’d always been there to help my younger brothers and sister, enjoyed helping people in general, and so it felt like a perfect mission in life as a man – helping others while finding financial security. I also somehow found a way to attract the woman of my dreams at the time. I proposed to her and she accepted.

She was beautiful and bright, and interesting, and it seemed, devoted to me. I don’t know what I did to attract her or why she thought I deserved her, and this lack of knowledge always had me a bit on edge. I wasn’t confident that if I ever lost her that I could find another woman of that caliber again.

Well I DID lose her. She cheated on me with an NFL quarterback. And that same week, the dad who had never taught me about women, sports, or how to make one’s way in the world, died.

I went into a deep depression for about three years and almost dropped out of school. During that time, I couldn’t even look at a woman without getting weak in the knees, let alone talk to one.

But then something happened.

I got angry.

I mean, really, really angry.

I remember sitting alone in an apartment, in a city in which I knew no friends, without a soul to talk to about my life.

And all I could think of was a little off-the-cuff remark one of my surgery professors had made to me:

“It’s not what you do,” he said. “It’s what you do NEXT.”

I channeled all the anger into building my body into what I had always wanted it to be. Then I tried out for the most dangerous sport I could find – Rugby – and made the team. I learned that my body could be taught to give me a kind of “outer” psychological influence on others, socially.

I turned to books and learning because they were the only other resources I had. I made learning what nobody else knows, my only “inner” psychological power.

I traveled the world “to find myself,” through Europe and Asia, Africa, and Indonesia, and ended up discovering that my problems were tiny – that the very same challenges I had are experienced by men all over the world no different from myself.

When I returned, I left the field I had been training for – Surgery – and switched my life’s course into studying the mind. I became a psychiatrist.

I figured that it would be a perfect opportunity to learn all the “secret” things about peoples’ behavior that were not common knowledge. What makes women tick. What leads to true success. What it is to really “Be a Man.” I was also hooked on helping people by this point. Truly hooked.

I started reading everything I could in the self-help arena. I attended every seminar out there. The words used were easy to understand, inspiring, and everything was available from “How to Meet Women,” to “How to Be a Successful Entrepreneur.” Yet after a year or two of this I came to realize that these kinds of motivational programs, while inspiring, and “Rah-Rah,” were really pretty impractical experiences that had only managed to drain my bank account. In weeks after leaving such seminars you end up deflated and back at square one with your very real, challenged life.

I realized that psychiatry was overly technical and uninspiring to many I treated. Yet the inspirational self-help gurus were utterly untrained, unskilled scientifically, and were generally just great salesmen simply out to make a buck.

The real “break” came when I realized that all this time I was looking for someone else to hold my hand – to lead me. To father me. To be the older brother I never had.

And the “someone” to guide me would have to be ME, instead.

The things about my profession that made it difficult to get good information to people fast, and see them improve their lives even faster… these were not someone else’s problem. My complaining about them was MY problem, and I had to solve it. All the things I had experienced in my personal life were also MY problems, and I need to solve them too.

I started taking the pieces of self-help I had read, and the well-researched parts of my professional training – putting them together in places that made sense. Like puzzle pieces, a new way of looking at psychology fit itself together for me. It helped everyone I worked with more rapidly than anything I had ever seen, and solved each and every question I had ever had about attracting women, making one’s way in the world, and ultimately “Being a Man.”

It did, and what’s more, the ONLY way that the complexity of psychology could be explained, while keeping the inspiration, simplicity, and real-world usefulness of some self-help ideas was for it to be VISUAL.

I found myself with the ONLY complete explanation of psychology, women, and success in life as a man that was entirely laid out as a set of DIAGRAMS.

I wasn’t angry anymore. I was excited. A picture is worth a thousand words, and these diagrams were pure GOLD for getting my own life turned around.

Any time I had a challenge from then on, I simply needed to look at a diagram that had ALL the answers on what to DO.

Not only did I start having a giant shift in the results I was getting in relating to women or making my way in the world, I knew EXACTLY why that was. There was no more guesswork.

It literally was like stumbling onto the “E=mc2 of Psychology.”

I called my new method of solving the challenges of life, mindOS, because it works just like the “operating system” of a computer. You can plug any problem into it and it guides you to the answer – of “just what to do.”

I started teaching it around the world to audiences and individuals just like you, and just like me. And I continue to use it every day to keep my own life growing.

Since that first basic discovery of this incredible system, I have divided it into whole courses for you that address every area of a man’s life:

• From how to attract women at first meeting, to how to maintain a long term relationship
  
• From how to use body language in drawing people to you in business, to growing a vast social network of friends
  
• From how to communicate to women in ways no other man even comes close to touching, to steering your life perfectly in the direction that will most reward you financially, emotionally, and spiritually.
  
• How to elevate your status among other men, to how to preserve your resources, channeling them to the most effective places in your mission in life as a man.
  
• From how to choose the RIGHT WOMAN for you in the first thirty minutes of meeting, to how to prevent now and forever, ever being cheated on by a woman.
  

The list could go on for twenty pages.

These are all organized for you in a sensible way – one that marches you from the most core material for free, right up into more advanced skills as a man.

I have now come to believe something you may find to be life-changing…

“Being a Man” is not JUST about being good at getting women into your life. There are many losers who have all the affection from women they can get, but never amount to anything in the other areas of their lives.

“Being a Man” is most certainly not JUST about being in a high-flying career. Take it from me – and I am sure you have been here too at some point – your mission in life as a man will feel entirely EMPTY no matter how successful you are if you just don’t get how to attract women to your life. Some think that the attention of women is the prime reason we even bother with careers in our early years.

One of the most important aspects of my theory to give to you RIGHT NOW, is this:

Masculinity = Skills With Women + Skills At Career

Or in normal language:

“Being a Man” = Attracting Women + Having a “Mission in Life”

If you don’t know how to successfully meet women, then you’re probably going to walk through life feeling like “less of a man”. It’s not an easy thing to explain to someone who doesn’t “get it”, but I’ll bet that you know EXACTLY what I’m talking about.

On the other hand, if you don’t have all the masculine skills of “making your way in the world” – a goal we all call a “career” or better yet, a “mission in life” as a man - the skills for this psychiatrists call “character” – then it eats away at you no matter how good you are with women.

Soon, your popularity, effectiveness, and enjoyment of relationships to women crumble. They feel your mission in life weaken at first, then see it start to dissolve, and you go back to the job you hate, or sink into an “unpleasant resignation” about the job you already have. Then no matter how suave and clever you are, you can lose the very woman you have always wanted.

You KNOW what I mean.

Your mission in life as a man does count, and your “character” as a man is the very thing that drives your success at it.

To “Be a Man,” you need BOTH skill at attracting women, AND skill at career success through character growth.

Ultimately, any difficulty you encounter in life comes down to where you stand on these two parts of the equation of masculinity.

When you have to make a decision about taking a new job, you will need to remember your mission in life, and how it fits with the presence of women in your life. Many men forget entirely about the “woman thing” when they are hard at work on the career choices.

When you are having a hard time financially, you need to look at your current career skills, and not forget the ability to attract women in your life. Many men dig in and forge ahead when money is tight, forgetting that women are half the equation of masculinity.

The more common story is the guy who falls so deeply for a woman that he puts all his time and resources into her, and lets his career utterly fall apart.

They forget that “Being a Man” = Women + Mission in Life

BOTH parts of “Being a Man” are necessary and very FEW men ever bother to consider the impact of these on every challenge you encounter.

There certainly has never been a textbook about it, a coach, therapist, or self-help guru who teaches how these work together. Perhaps, like me, you didn’t have a Dad or older brother fit all the puzzle pieces together FOR you.

Now there is. It’s in your curriculum to train at in the “university” we provide for you.

Why Should You Believe That I Can Help You?

As you already know, the internet is literally packed to the gills with people working out of their basements, trying to convince you that they have “The Big, New Idea.” Well, mindOS, really is. I thought I was always just going to use it to help patients one-to-one; I never suspected my travels were going to lead me to the internet. In fact, when I first started building this system for you, the internet had barely been born.

Still, I don’t have ALL the answers to your SPECIFIC life challenges.

But YOU do, when you take the details of your life into the kind of complete, comprehensive guidance that is built into my diagrams, systems, tactics, and strategies that have taken over fifteen years to develop for you.

Given the thousands of garden variety therapists in the phone book, all the self-helpy talking heads on tv, the New Age people with seminars on a mountaintop, and the “How to Attract Women” salesmen all over the internet, you might very understandably ask, “Why should I believe what Dr. Paul says?”

And my answer to you is that you SHOULDN’T just blindly believe me.

In fact, I would recommend that you approach my programs with a healthy skepticism, and a “scientific” perspective. You should also read other authors widely, and with curiosity.

But I want you to TRY what you learn from me, even if it’s for FREE.

If you sign up for my free email newsletter at www.doctorpaul.net, I’m going to send you three newsletters every week… each one of them JAM-PACKED with tips, concepts, and advice on how to attract women, gain the career advantage, and “Be a Man.”

Go out and TRY some of it!

I think you’ll find that I’m not interested in things that don’t work, or associating with people who don’t want growth, health and success in their lives. I like stuff that gets results, and people who give results. BIG results.

Only after you’ve seen that this system is for REAL… do I want you to “believe” me.

By the way, my programs aren’t “perfect”. They are about the juicy skills, tactics, strategies and POWER in your life as a man. They aren’t about just flashiness and entertainment (although you will find your share.)

I’ve spent a lot of time trying to explain and describe what I’ve learned over the years… and to do it in a way that allows you to get results as fast as possible.

The fact is that I’m learning and growing all the time, the same as you… and I’ve updated some of my programs recently to reflect new things I’ve learned, new understandings I have, and new techniques I’ve developed.

I’m a person, and as a person I have my flaws. But I also think my programs are the best in the world, and I stand behind them. I honestly hope you get a TON of value from them.

“Try Before You Buy”

I honestly believe that you should only have to pay for my programs IF IT HELPS YOU ATTRACT WOMEN WHILE FINDING YOUR MISSION IN LIFE AS A MAN.

If it doesn’t help you, then you shouldn’t have to pay… makes sense, right? Get the FREE stuff first. The NEWSLETTER has been followed by thousands of men for years now. The new FORUMS are a place to go RIGHT NOW to get advice from me, my coaches, and hundreds of other men just like you. And my free blog, podcasts, and downloadable gift are going to get you well on your way to rising to any challenge a man could have.

Before I tell you about my different programs, I want to FIRST tell you that every program I sell comes with a “ONE YEAR MONEY-BACK” no-risk guarantee.

I will let you go through any program or book you want, learn everything inside, and actually TRY IT OUT in the real world. Then if for any reason you do not want it, return it within a YEAR for your money back.

If you don’t get results IMMEDIATELY, then just send it back to me… I’m serious.

If you get to the point where you’d like to invest in one of my programs, and you want to get all the details, just go to any of the click-boxes where you can learn more about the program, and it will all be there.

I am 100% serious about this offer… it’s real. I only want you to pay me if you discover EXACTLY how YOU can “Be a Man” with women and in your mission in life as a man.

Where Should You Start?

Once you start seeing improvement in your success with women and career, you’re going to naturally want to get into some of my more “advanced” ideas.

The best place to start is with my first two ebooks: “MindOS” and “KWML.” I’ve updated them, added some great new material, and even perfectly integrate them with all the free testing, forums and newsletters at www.doctorpaul.net. These books contain my most core thinking about what causes men to reach BREAKOUT SUCCESS in their careers and social lives, and I believe they’re the best place to start… for ANY guy who wants to MORE than a job which doesn’t make you completely thrilled to get up in the morning. And have a woman that makes you never want to go to sleep.

Before I tell you about my other programs, I want to say something that might not be the best thing for my wallet…

My best ideas are in these books. I’m serious. You don’t need to invest in my more advanced CD or DVD programs, or come to one of my live seminars to get my “good stuff”.

In fact, many of my best ideas are actually in my FREE newsletters. Really.

My DVD programs and other materials are designed to help guys who are interested in getting a more “in-depth” education.

Think of it like learning a sport… Let’s say Rugby, just to humor me.

You can go to practice and play for free. The team will accept you. It will be a challenge, but one that you learn from, and become a better man because of.

But if you want to learn how to play like a PRO, it’s going to require some more practice, training, and experience. I have all the experience you can handle, at ANY skill level with women and your profession you are now at.

My FREE NEWSLETTER and the core ecourses - MindOS, KWML, and Mature Masculine Power will teach you everything you need to know to attract women, gain the upper hand in making your way in the world, and “Being a Man.” If you want to become a MASTER, then consider investing in my other programs…

“Opposites Attract”

My second eCourse is called “KWML: How To Use The Secrets of Personality To Attract The Woman of Your Dreams”.

This book is heavy on the “psychology” of attraction… it clearly identifies precisely how and why some women are for you, and some absolutely are not. In the latter case, it doesn’t matter if you somehow attract her, because things will end up being a drain on your life.

Remember, Masculinity (“Being a Man”) = Women + MISSION IN LIFE.

Without a deep knowledge of personality styles in women, it is highly likely that you will one day find yourself committed to a woman who will not, and frankly, CANNOT, be a good teammate in life, assisting in your rise in status among men at career.

Can you see why merely learning basic attraction tricks for getting women’s attentions are not nearly enough to help your life improve? Many “gurus” are out there helping men get women interested in them, but NONE of them assist men in screening the EXACT RIGHT TYPE of woman for you.

If you make THAT error, you can be in a world of pain, months or years down the road. I help you eliminate this from EVER happening simply by paying attention in the very first minutes of meeting a woman.

The best of science that I can gather together for you directly and absolutely shows that OPPOSITES attract in terms of personality style. The reason for this is that the PERFECT woman for you is the one who, just by being herself, brings all the skills in life to the table…which you LACK. And you do the same for HER, just by being YOURSELF.

Many people say this completely misguided statement: “Relationships are hard work!”

No. They don’t have to be. Relationships ought to IMPROVE and EMPOWER your life. Not add a second or third job to it. Don’t get trapped in this kind of negative thinking that has brought down many a good man. We need women and they need us – nothing can be better than finding someone who can be themselves around you, and vice versa, yet feel that they are the luckiest in the world to have YOU.

What GUARANTEES the women who are right for you to commit to, NO reservations, NO worries, NO creeping feeling of being trapped in a commitment… are the ones who are your OPPOSITE in my system.

What’s more, you’ll find this landmark book to SIMULTANEOUSLY and DIRECTLY POWER YOUR MISSION IN LIFE AS A MAN and bring SOCIAL FRIENDSHIP CONNECTIONS to the next level.

Why? Because the same principles I teach you in a simple, easy style will have you walking around IMMEDIATELY identifying the personality types of others. That means other MEN too. Other guys who may end up being best friends, business networking contacts, or even future employers or partners in your career.

You can’t afford to not have such a powerful book, and tactic for your life. It helps both root core aspects of what it is to “Be a Man.”

If you’re fascinated by psychology and behavior (like I am), then you’ll not only enjoy learning what’s in this book… but you’ll also learn how to see every aspect of both meeting women and being on your mission in life as a man differently.

All the details are here:http://doctorpaul.net/kwml.htm.

I recommend that YOU try out our forums for FREE, but then take it up to a higher level, and get access to the monthly UNIVERSITY program, a paid monthly FORUM. It will give you the ability to problem solve with other guys who have been through it all and come out victorious, a full set of tools and online resources that guide you step by step through doing your own work on your life using what you’ve learned from me. And there will be teleseminars, restricted-access podcasts, and other media that only you can access as part of your training.

If you don’t have a lot of extra time, and you’d like to learn from some of the experts that I have learned from and met over the years, then you might want to invest in this monthly program.

Every month, I interview a different expert in improving men’s lives and make it available to you for download.

This is the next best thing to learning from these people in real life (it might actually be better, because you get my experience and connections as part of the deal).

After listening to several of these interviews… a few times each… it will begin to “reprogram” your mind. It will change how you see the world. It will install a new way of thinking about attracting women and remaining ever-faithful to your mission in life.

Getting several different perspectives will open your mind to the possibilities that are out there for YOU… and you’ll also learn TONS of practical, real-world, step-by-step techniques for every aspect of attracting women while powering forward in your life’s mission.

If you'd like to learn more about my monthly UNIVERSITY program, just go here.

“Your Mission in Life: Advanced MindOS”

I think of my Advanced MindOS DVD/CD program like the “operator’s manual” for your mind.

If you were going to someday be a racecar driver, you first have to get behind the wheel of the car you have now, and learn how all the instruments work, right?

Then you could work your way up in driving skill, build yourself a better car, and someday have a Formula One machine on your hands.

Well that’s what your character growth is like. You have to learn its “working parts” to be able to do anything further with your life. When you get at that, it is your character which precisely moves you forward into a solid mission for yourself in life.

This is probably the advanced program I feel lays a foundation for both your interactions with women in general, but in your friendships and career ambitions too. It will really give you a DEEP education on all aspects of relating to women while building a life.

When I first put on this program, there were guys who came up to me afterward to say how blown away they were by the extra tactics and big picture thinking for their lives. They thought it would be just a repeat of the mindOS ecourse book. (This book comes WITH the program, of course.)

But it wasn’t just a rehash. When you have a live program, there is all the more opportunity to field tons of questions, the exact type you probably have in mind right now.

• What do I do about tough choices in life, like job changes, or breaking up with a woman?
  
• What do I do when I have more than one woman I am interested in?
  
• What do I do when I feel confused about the right path to take in making my way in the world?
  
• What do I do about a “difficult” boss or woman or friend?
  
• How do I find the RIGHT woman? The RIGHT boss? The RIGHT set of friends for my social circle?
  
• What do I do about my past? It’s pretty bad stuff, and bothers me almost all the time.
  
• How can I be more attractive to women? To employers, partners or friends?
  
• It’s all in there, right from guys like YOU. Only the answers are as clear and easy as making a drawing on a marker board.
  

I originally created this program for guys who were interested in more of the “inner psychology” of success through character growth… in other words, guys who wanted to learn: how and why certain career paths, friends, and “falling into a slump” come about, how to fix “self image” problems, how to overcome failure with women… and how to “undo” bad programming from earlier in life.

Of course, the program also contains literally HUNDREDS of great tips and techniques for understanding relationships to women, friends, and business connections.

It is important to discover your mission in life as a man, probably before you even get too deeply involved with a woman. What you are meant to do in life can actually help to guide you to the right woman to be on your team. The thing that will make you most successful is your quality of character – what mindOS is all about.

In short, if you’re going to get started with one of my more advanced programs, START WITH THIS ONE. You can get more about the program here.

“Your Inner Personal Life And Your Outer Social Skills”

As you might already know, I put a lot of emphasis on what you might call the “inner psychology” of success with women and in finding your life’s mission.

Your Personal Life Skills are all about what’s going on INSIDE your mind, body, and emotions.

I honestly believe that if you don’t have your Personal Life together, then almost NOTHING you do or say is going to get you social or career success.

If you don’t have your Personal Life together, then fancy tactics, cool clothes, and clever pick-up lines will only waste your time… because the woman you’re talking to will QUICKLY see that you’re not the smooth guy you’re pretending to be. You’re a “straw man.”

If employers, business partners or potentially valuable friends sense that your Inner Personal Life - your character - has something not quite right about it, they IMMEDIATELY pick up on that as a liability to THEIR missions in life. They shun you.

On the other hand, if you DO have your Inner Personal Life together – your solid character - then you can use almost ANY tactic with women… because the woman you’re approaching will be able to FEEL that you’re the kind of man that she’s been looking for…

…and the business contacts, the social networks you could be a part of… well they “just know” that you are a great boon to them. In fact, they can start to get all jittery that they may lose your alliance to a competitor! They start pursuing your attention and involvement in THEIR missions in life.

Now, don’t get me wrong…

Tactics, lines, and “smooth moves” DO get the attention of women. No question. In fact, they APPRECIATE that you have clearly bothered to work on yourself for their benefit.

Good posture, strong handshakes, and a smile DO at least briefly get others to buy into your life’s mission. Absolutely.

But it’s only part of the puzzle.

With this in mind, I like to think of my programs as being strategic “Inner Personal Life” programs that go heavy on your mission in life and light on your relations with women, tactical “Outer Social Skills” programs light on your career but HEAVY on your precision in connecting with women… and finally, “combined” programs.

By the way, my eCourses, “MindOS”, “KWML,” and my “Advanced MindOS” programs are a balance between Inner Psychology and Outer Social Skills…

The reality is that I always sneak some of each into EVERY program… but I’m going to talk about them in terms of these two categories, so you get an idea of how they work together…

“The Inner Personal Life”

A solid “Inner Personal Life” is the foundation for all success with women and with your mission in life in general.

I’ve created several programs that are aimed at helping you build a POWERFUL Inner Personal Life… and I’d like to tell you about a few of them…

“On Men, Women, and Life: The Wisdom of a Champion Boxer”

To that end, I’ve created a simple combined CD/DVD program called “On Men, Women, and Life: The Wisdom of a Champion Boxer”.

I told you that throughout my life, I’ve learned from the examples of the most gifted, skilled, and successful men out there. In the area of men’s dating alone, some of you know that I have assisted one such talented man - David Deangelo - with a few of his programs.

Well in the area of BOTH dating women AND finding your mission in life (… “Being a Man” in general), there is nobody I’ve ever met quite like Carl Davis.

He’s an enormous fighter, a ladies man, a shrewd businessman, and it is astounding how he laughs death in the face, and wins, EVERY time. I mean UNDEFEATED at going up against some of the most dangerous boxers on earth. Before he hits the big time this year and likely takes the world heavyweight crown, I cornered him (not physically of course – at risk of my life - but with my sparkling personality.)

In short, he agreed to spill all, about how it is that he has reached such success as a man, sorted through a crowd of beautiful women all trying to et his attention, and recently settled on just ONE woman perfectly suited to him. There is nothing this gritty, revealing, and practical for your Personal Life out there right now.

This program is relatively short, very condensed, and INTENSE. If you want to get a little more into what Carl Davis is all about, go read about the program and check it out here: http://doctorpaul.net/boxer.htm.

“Mature Masculine Power”

After spending years trying to learn how to attract women, I began to notice that the guys who were the MOST successful were actually communicating with women on a “different level”. They would talk, certainly, but there was something else going on too. It was emotional, maybe even “spiritual.”

As I mentioned a little while ago, I had some big personal breakthroughs when approached the most successful men I could find, to watch them “do what they do.”

When I compared what I had learned in my profession to what these sorts of men were doing to be so effective with women, I realized that “spiritual” wasn’t quite the right word. It was “masculinity” – the core of a man’s “spirit.” Women could sense this both in the words of their conversation, but also in the way the guy moved, in the emotional tone, in his eyes, and countless other subtle ways.

Yet, when I would hang out with these successful men, I could tell that the very same “spirit” of their interactions with women was something that also steered their career lives. They didn’t let people walk all over them at the job, and yet they were also the “favorite” employee or partner of the big cheeses at the firm.

I didn’t get this at first, until I dove back into the principles of my profession. There is an exact set of “rules” and “codes” that go with the process of growing up to “Be a Man,” and these guys I knew had had great father-figures in their lives, or else just sort of stumbled on the “codes.”

As we know, Masculinity = Women + Mission in life, and - while some of my programs for you center very much on women and dating, others (like mindOS) center on your mission in life and your character as a man - I wanted to capture the “other side of the equation” in its purest form. The secret “codes” of masculinity.

When I watched each of these uber-masculine guys deal with problems - such as standing face-to-face with a boss and telling him he’s wrong, or telling a woman creating drama in their lives to “get some composure” – I seriously thought the very next event would be them getting immediately fired or broken up with.

It turns out that the OPPOSITE thing happened. The boss actually took on a new, visibly intense RESPECT for my friend, and the woman in his life would turn almost INSTANTLY into a supportive benefit to his life instead of a dramatic liability.

Well, the more I watched, the more I learned… and the more it made “sense” to me.

What I discovered was that there was a level of communication that was happening… right in front of me all along… that I just hadn’t “seen” before.

One of the things that was MOST exciting was that once I started to “get” what was going on, I started to practice the “language” myself and made pretty dramatic progress.

I eventually had one big “A-HA” moment.

It wasn’t a “language” being spoken between these REAL MEN and their bosses and girlfriends. It was a mastery of their masculine INSTINCTS.

The last piece of the puzzle of human behavior clicked in place for me. “Instincts” do not respond to logic and reason. Most times they do not even respond to verbal language at all in fact. They aren’t a language – they are an inborn “sense” or “way” of doing things.

If you recall that my biggest problem in life was figuring out “how to do things,” you might understand why I became very excited at discovering this for myself.

What it means is that no matter who you are, no matter how bad things have been, how down on yourself you have been, or how confused about “how to do things” like attracting women and making your way in the world – you already HAVE IT inside yourself. The “secret code” to success with women and career is already BUILT INTO you. It’s called INSTINCT, and like every other animal on earth, these “codes” were programmed into your very DNA.

All you have to do is discover what they are and start USING them. In fact, they are already trying to USE THEMSELVES, though you don’t realize it. Instincts are built into you to keep you ALIVE and to help you find a MATE – like your heart beats even though you are asleep, or startling at a loud noise, or finding food when you are hungry, or looking at a beautiful woman who walks into the room. There’s your proof right there that you already have this power of instinct working in you.

All those guys I knew who were extremely successful with their careers and with women simply knew their own instincts at a very deep level, and were able to “turn over the steering wheel” to them. Let me guide you a little more in getting a total understanding of how they work, so you can harness that power for your best interests.

You’ll “get” why it is that women never responded to you BEFORE on this level.

This type of communication is the KEY to flirting with women effectively, building attraction without risk… and taking things from one “step” to the next… smoothly, and without any rejection.

You’ll also “get” why it is that for some men, making money, moving up the career ladder, and truly finding their mission in life seems so incredibly easy. THAT could be YOU.

I think of this program mostly as an “Inner Personal Life” program, even though it contains some recommended tactics for raising your status among men. I HIGHLY recommend it if you’d like to learn how to connect the Inner Personal Life and Outer Social Skills together.

Details are here:http://doctorpaul.net/maturemasculinepower.htm.

“KWML Mastery”

After putting a lot of time and energy into learning what it takes to attract and meet women, I finally realized that women aren’t attracted to men who do not provide what they need.

Just like I worked for years at learning “how to do things” in a way that must be driven by my own “male instinct,” learning that ONLY would basically lead to me “knowing myself” very well, but not WOMEN.

Discovering your own Mature Masculine Power certainly leads to “sparking attraction” in women, but what about if you find a very high quality woman and you want to take things FURTHER?

I can’t tell you how many guys have come to me over the years, having learned “attraction secrets” and the like, wondering, waiting on that “one special woman” who just didn’t seem interested after the first date.

What was worse, there’s a term from psychology called “parallel process,” which means that the same habits and instincts we use in one area of our lives probably are working in other areas too. This means that those same guys who came to me and couldn’t get second dates also didn’t get along very well with their coworkers, or boss, and tended to also not get “second promotions.”

The “parallel process” problem for these guys even extended to the level of not being able t0 meet and keep FRIENDS. In fact, THAT is the name of the parallel process: lack of friendship skill.

It wasn’t that their masculine instincts were all wrong or mis-wired. They worked. It was the specific people they were choosing to align themselves with, and the WAY that they communicated to those people that was the problem.

If you took advantage of the introductory book on spotting the right kind of woman for you – KWML – this course in KWML MASTERY takes your skill and advantage to the next level. You need to be developing the right TYPES of friendships with people – whether with women, or with the people who can advance your mission in life.

It’s probably also the most PROFOUND of all my programs.

Why?

Did you ever realize that there is another hidden social feature of your life going on around you? It’s friendship. There is “friendship” in everything from a boss-employee relationship to a business-partner relationship, to a wildly sexual relationship to a woman. Friendship CANNOT be removed from the social mix because it EVOLVED in us to keep the human race alive. In fact, rules, codes of conduct, employee handbooks, or not, we are hard-wired to LIKE people who are our friends, and DISLIKE those who are not.

Most of us think that a boss is a boss and a romantic interest in a woman is, well, in a special category SEPARATE from “friendship.” In fact, most other materials in dating education out there warn guys and coax them away from “being in the friend zone” with women, and from avoiding having a “personal life in the workplace.”

Well, your Inner Personal Life goes with you wherever you go, whether you, your boss, the women you date, or your dad would like to say that you need to “keep it separate.”

It turns out that for every one of us, there is an “ideal type” of friend, a type of person with “best friend potential,” and three quarters of people you meet just do not qualify for it.

This program will explain to you EXACTLY HOW to IMMEDIATELY spot the people who are most likely to be your allies in life, and the women who will naturally, just be BEING THEMSELVES, automatically support your masculine mission in life… does that sound, maybe, a little bit useful?

It is. And I don’t think there is a single person I have EVER met who hasn’t taken this knowledge, and revolutionized both their social lives and their connections to women with it.

This program will take you step by step, not just into the basics of the KWML, but with actual examples of people on screen from each of the personality types. You will see what makes them tick, and learn by DOING, by example, how to instantly recognize the women and the allies who will power your life forward the most.

I guarantee that one review of this program will deeply affect your view of life, women, and yourself. It’s like being given a super-power. Really. When you demonstrate it to a boss or partner in your life, suddenly they think you have “secret mental powers,” and follow you around wanting to learn from you. When you show it to women – on your own terms and only to the degree you want to reveal what you know – they think they have never met a man who understands them so DEEPLY.

In short, you have the power to make the best, the most high quality friendships for life. Friends like friends, and this means you will always know who likes YOU. Better yet, you’ll know exactly WHY.

I also guarantee that this program will create a change in you that other people will notice… no question.

If it sounds like something you need, then go read the details here: http://doctorpaul.net/kwmlmasterycourse.htm.

“Missionars”

The program I just told you about (KWML Mastery) is directed at the link between your inner psychology and your outer social skills. It’s about affecting your friendship ability.

At this point in your training, many guys have really taken on a ton of new skills to move their lives ahead in the two core areas of dating women, and following a mission in life.

Yet, when a man has been through a “basic training” at having a whole new life, it’s not surprising when very specific questions come up. If you have an idea what it is you’re meant to be, and just not yet figured out how to gather together all your “tools” to take off, it’s time for a LIVE MISSIONAR.

Not to be confused with “missionary,” a MISSIONAR is my twice-monthly teleseminar where I take LIVE CALLS from you and answer your questions IN PERSON, with guidance, advice, and assignments to take back to your mission as a man.

My coaches often join with me on these calls, so you have a full breadth of advice on your personal life, your mission as a man, and the ways that women impact, assist, or detract from that. Consider it like being at battle, and you get together with your “Generals” in the “War Room” to discuss strategy before going back to attack on the front lines of life.

Of course there are many men who consult with us in the “War Room” this way, who really want to talk about the women in their lives, how to attract them better, get them back in their lives, or let someone go who is not “with the program” of what their life needs to be about.

There is no service like this, ANYWHERE else. You have a board-certified psychiatrist, a team of experienced men who have seen and done it all, and the personal touch of being able to get solid guidance from the comfort of your own home.

It’s perhaps my most inexpensive service, but also one of the most profound experiences for the men I support. What’s more, when the call is over, and you ALL get full, direct, personal guidance from me, then you can simply download the whole convo as an mp3 file to listen to on your computer or burn to a CD to review again and again.

Like having a psychiatrist and a team of military advisors on life in your pocket, available always, whenever you need them, from WHEREVER you live.

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