"The “E = mc2” of Psychology Has Been Discovered"

Have you ever heard of the above equation discovered by Einstein? It was a revolutionary discovery in physics in which for the first time showed that energy in the universe can be transformed or created out of matter.

To most of us, the physics underneath such a discovery is impossible to understand. Yet Einstein made all the science so very simple for any of us to understand. Energy = matter. Matter = energy. Simple.

That’s called “elegance,” taking the complex and making it simple. Well, I have something to share with you. Just as the way energy works in the physical universe was made simple by this equation.

I'm a physician, an M.D. Board Certified Psychiatrist, who unlike others in the men's psychology/dating advisor market, has both the professional credentials to know what I am talking about as far as the science of attraction, dating and relationships - and also extensive experience working with and consulting to all the most popular "personalities" in the men's media.

What this means is that I do not pull ideas out of a hat, or fabricate "kitchen-table wisdom" that in the self-help market, does use simple language, but lacks substance. I speak your language as a man, and know all the tools, techniques, and buzzwords that others use in the men's dating education market. I keep only what is scientifically proven to work - not what worked for one guy, in one situation, on one evening; unlike, you know - "that guy" who then writes a blog about one dating experience and calls it a new "technology." It's not, in the real world. What works for one man must work for ALL men or it isn't science.

But how did we get here?

You could say that there was a huge cultural shift that erupted a few decades ago and disempowered men, and ironically, as a secondary effect, women too. Many men these days have found themselves “nice boys” without a sense of self, or “badboys” without a shred of community respect. And rightfully so…neither is a MATURE man.

I grew up in the countryside and now I can’t do without the largest urban centers to explore. I always thought that when you’re lost in the woods, alone, you ought to at least start walking. So that’s what I did. Yet as poet David Whyte once wrote, “When lost in the woods, stand still, stand still, and let the forest find YOU.”

Which is what happened to me. I put myself through school for free, on scholarships, traveled the world on scholarships, and went into medicine, business, media, public speaking, and publishing on just two core things deep in me: curiousity about what makes the mind tick, and a desperate hunger for adventure. And so I had to learn by trial and error what my family and my culture and my schools could not give me.

Which brings us to the point of standing still. After losing a fiancée, my Dad, my security, and dating many women, I found myself still standing, successful but not happy.

So I looked around and looked within. What I found were thousands if not millions of men like myself, and as many women, utterly at a loss as to what it is that can help us find the exact right ONE for us to feel in love, and KEEP it lasting. When I looked within, I found one single idea after all my formal academic training that would not leave me alone: the notion that there HAD to be a simpler way to understand psychology and communication between the genders than all the complicated gobbledegook I had forced myself to learn to pass exams and master psychiatry.

Since then I have helped improve the lives of men in their language, fine tuned to their unique personality and life's goals, in a way that's fun, entertaining, sometimes hilarious, and often profound. Always, I help men cultivate a sense of "cool." In fact, you may be surprised to know that there is even a scientific definition of what is "cool," and it can be literally manufactured, cultivated as if by a recipe that will never let you down.

Over the past ten years I have developed a system of ideas and process to show you, simple equations and diagrams that do the very same thing for your understanding of psychology, attraction, dating and relationships.

• How to become more attractive to the opposite sex, how to work on your mood, to instead find success and happiness.

• Human beings run on a different kind of energy from that seen in autos, lamps, and nuclear power stations.

Our psychology is “powered” by a kind of energy we all call “self-esteem.” While the true nature of self-esteem has been a Holy Grail of my professional field for at least a hundred years, the true exact nature of how to build it and maintain it has been discovered, and is easy to use as a recipe or a roadmap.

In fact I solitarily devised a mathematical equation for self-esteem that you can use in nearly every interaction you have with others, or yourself, on a daily basis. It is so easy and sensible, others are going to be slapping their own heads saying “Why didn’t I think of that?”

It’s true. And I share this revolutionary equation with you in nearly all the materials you will find here. It is the core of all that makes us happy, successful, or well-loved by others. Your understanding of the invisible world of psychology is about to change forever, because while most of us can’t stand to learn equations, this easy, simple one literally shows you how to DRAW your dilemmas of life on a blank sheet of paper.

Rather than remaining a mysterious, confusing, invisible force in your life, psychology literally can be revealed, and drawn as if a roadmap, out of your problems and into durable happiness and success. It amounts to an "operating system of the human mind(tm)", no different from the point and click ease with which you use an ordinary computer. Only this time, the computer is your mind, and you can operate the controls flawlessly. I call this system, mindOS, the operating system of the human mind, and at its core is a remarkable equation containing just three simple words.

Welcome to a new way of looking at your life, and finding the people you have always wanted to surround yourself with.

(Dr Paul is a distinguished author in modern psychology. He has lead seminars around the world, where his unifying approach to the psychology of the human mind has transformed the lifes of many in search of a mature understanding of the genders. Aside from his prominent TV appearances on shows like "The Bachelor" he has recently joined the ranks of the prestigeous speakers list of the Penguin Publishing Group, which has featured authors and personalities including Lance Armstrong, the Dalai Lama, Sigmund Freud, Stephen King, Dave Pelzer, Ayn Rand and Al Gore).